OK, so you've a baby on the way, or you've a young baby. You've going through the major dilemma of what to do about nappies - disposables are so convenient, but even the "green" ones go to landfill and the normal ones, well they have so many gels and chemicals in they aren't just bad for the environment (imagine the manufacturing process and then they're around for 200+ years) but some say they are bad for a boy's fertility and can cause irritations on their skin.
Then there's the real nappy option - ugh.... how many different types, how do I decide, the smell, the washing.... no thanks! But....
Well 3 years ago when I found I was pregnant I was pretty determined from the word go that I didn't want to be using disposable nappies - our parents coped fine with real ones, so why shouldn't we? They can't be that bad. I did a bit of looking on line.... not much info out there then and what was I felt was very biased towards "you MUST use real nappies". In terms of speaking to someone- well even now I don't know anyone who has their kids in real nappies (and our son is now out of them). So in the end we went for something we could buy easily that would dry quickly. We started out with Cotton Bottoms wraps, inners and liners - all could be purchased in Boots and John Lewis, so no waiting around for deliveries, which was a plus. Well, the wraps just didn't work.... they have no cuffs so we had lots of leaks (yuck). So I tried some others and ended up with Bambino Mio (go for the plain white wraps as they can be washed @ 60 rather than just 40, so can go in with the nappies ... we discovered this after nursery melted some wraps!). I actually found that the cheapest place to get the wraps was Kiddicare as they have multiple buy deals.
In terms of how many - well make sure you've enough to last 3 days plus one for drying time (wraps don't have to be clean every time) so about 8 wraps and up to 20 nappies was about right for us.
You also need a bucket with a lid to keep out those nasty smells.... add a few drops of lavender to it, or tea tree oil, both of which have natural disinfectant properties, so smell better and help with the bugs. Plus of course rubber gloves for fishing them out and into the machine (when our son was tiny it was 3-4 washes a week, but as he got older, 2-3). You don't always have to wash at 60+ degrees - only do that if there are some real nasties in there - but make sure you've got a decent load and don't use fabric softeners.
The other thing that we didn't think of, but learnt in time, was wipes... yes, those innocent wipes. Most aren't flushable and it is REALLY difficult to find flushable ones... try the Bambino Mio ones (again, Kiddicare are cheapest) or Perfectly Happy People who do their own.
As our son got older, we did find that the real nappies weren't absorbent enough over night, even with booster pads. So, I have to admit that we went to "green" disposables and we use Nature Baby nappies as they are easy to buy from supermarkets or Boots. No, I don't like using them, but he's more comfortable and doesn't end up leaking every night.
That leads me to a major benefit of real nappies (or at least I think it is).... earlier potty training! Yes, it's true, or at least for us it has been - I don't think that 2 years and 2 months is bad to be out of nappies during the day (he's the first in his group at nursery). We're convinced that a lot of this is because we let him have nappy free time from quite a young age, which meant he learnt the benefit of it in terms of freedom, so wanted to be out of nappies (he was the one that made the decision, not us). If you were a young toddler in disposables that we really comfortable and flexible and you couldn't tell when you were wet other than the weight, would you make the effort to have to use the potty? I can understand why kids are getting older before they are potty trained as more are in more comfortable disposables.
All in all, would I use real nappies again - YES! It's easy to get used to the routine, some nurseries will wash them for you or you can go for a washing service if you want to, they're cheaper and you wont need them for as long. Lots of good reasons as far as I'm concerned... plus, it's better for the environment.
Are there any other real nappy users out there - I'm interested to know what made you make the decision and how it's gone for you. If you're considering them, feel free to ask any questions.
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We started out with cloth nappies when our eldest was born, and have never looked back. There have been a couple of short spells (maybe a couple of weeks in five years) where we've used disposables, and I actually find them more difficult than 'real' nappies. Once you have a routine going, everything works really well.
Do consider drying time though - some nappies are so bulky that they make it necessary to have either a huge number of them, or a tumble drier to get them dry in time.
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have been using real nappies since third child - now on number six - have tried lots of different nappies and we are currently using tots bots fluffles with a motherease wrap, never had a leak yet ! they are a manmade material lined with fleece so they dry very quickly compared to others ! i usually have a mixture of nappies which i find good as they all have different good aspects. i also have a mothercare smart nappy which is good for short periods of time - they are not very absorbant, some motherease organics and some tots bots organics - both of these take a while to dry but with the fluffles as well i get through a day no problem! the fluffles are my fav so far though, they hold a lot, not leaked so far, quick to dry (my machine has a 1400 spin so are practically dry when they come out the machine!) and look like they would be very comfy. I do use the special boosters which tuck inside the liner - very nifty and means there is no folds next to your babe's bot -check them out!!!
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also in the last week been testing out bumgenius nappies - they really are genius ! my youngest is 8 mths and i am using the newborn insert insead of the wee one you get with them and it works a treat - between the fluffle and these all my nappy needs are taken care of !! they are expensive esp as the v3 has just come out but well worth the investment - dry quickly, comfy, one size, easy to wash, hold alot, dont leak - havnt tried them at night yet - will keep you posted !! x
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Thanks for keeping us and our readers up to date. It's great to know that there are so many more options out there now than there used to be.
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There are so many different cloth nappies out there now, there is always one that will suit your needs.
Your best bet with them is to speak to an advisor, either in person (you can look up agents in your area on here http://www.realnappycampaign.com/nappyfinder/)w... is good because you get to feel fluff, or online where you can get tailored advice. www.bumfluffnappies.com is good for the advice - it is impartial so it isn't reliant just on what she sells.
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Oops - sorry!
http://www.realnappycampaign.com/nappyfinder/
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That is definitely good advice - see as many as you can but also speak to users (or feedback somewhere like this). Everyone has different needs and expectations (beyond the fundamental of course!!!)
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The one thing I really struggled with over the last few months is getting clothes that fit over the cloth nappies - i seemed to be forever struggling with poppers, especially since James is such a wriggler!! A friend recently put me on to Frugi who have a whole load of clothes in their baby section that are "cut4cloth", and I'm in popper heaven now! Can really recommend their baby bodies...
http://www.welovefrugi.com
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that's a very valid point. We were always using the bodies that were a size bigger than normal to accomodate the extra bulk. We tended to find that he had to be in them all of the time as well to provide a bit more security against movement (although that may have just been me being paranoid!)
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When I decided to go down the real nappy road I contacted www.thenappylady.com and had a free demonstration and recieved advice on what nappies would suit us and our lifestyle. I can't remember what make we use now but I am very happy and found the setvice offered bt thenappylady to be brilliant. I'm not sure how far I;d have gone with the pursuit of real nappies had it not been for them. I do use disposables at night and during times of illness (diarrhea!)because they tend to leak less.
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