As if Motherhood isn't hard enough, it seems that the media is keen to report on just how bad things have become by making mothers their latest target.
The Guardian starts off with an article claiming breast isn't best, when it comes to intelligence, at least. Whilst factually 'correct', I would be surprised if any mother admitted breast feeding purely because it is rumoured to increase the IQ of their kids. Rather frustratingly, the article goes on to touch on one of the key factors in breast feeding (education), but only in passing:
"The researchers did find a direct link between the mother's intelligence and the likelihood she would breastfeed, however. An increase of 15 IQ points in the mother's intelligence score more than doubled her chance of breastfeeding - meaning that a mother with an IQ of 115 was more than twice as likely to breastfeed as one with the average IQ of 100."
If there are to be more of the researches into the benefits of breast-feeding, perhaps they should look closely into the effects of informed education and what effect that has on the length of time new mothers are prepared to breast feed for. Given that, "in Britain 76% of women start breastfeeding but only 28% persist until their child is four months", there is clearly room for improvement.
Elsewhere, the BBC report that smoking rates are stubbornly high among teenagers, no pun intended, I'm sure. Not only that, but 'pregnant teenagers smoke to try to reduce the size of their babies, and make delivery less painful.' Which, once again, highlights the need for better education for teenagers around all of these issues.
And finally, Slate posted an article entitled "When Moms Work, Kids Get Fat". Packed with disputable statistics, the article claims that "if a given child watches an extra 30 minutes of fast-food advertisements a week, he or she will get fatter, with an increase in body mass index of about 1 percent." Not only that, but "a mere 10 hours at work raises the chance of childhood obesity by 1.3 percentage points, which is about 10 percent."
We seem to have a strange fascination with mothers these days - they seeminly cannot afford to make any mistakes and yet they are also denied much in the way of education and long-term help from the community.
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Yes, you need to watch what you eat, but not excessively.
Unfortunately, I could have done with watching what I ate more than I did - our son suffered quite badly with ezcema and it wasn't until months after I stopped feeding him that i realised it was all connected with me feeding him - he's allergic to dairy and no one ever suggested that the dairy in my diet could cause the eczema, but looking back, I'm sure that is what happened as it cleared up in line with him going 100% onto soya milk. I've been really disappointed with my self for not realising sooner, but you can't get everything right, and as long as it isn't causing a major problem, it works out OK in the end. He certainly shows no signs of problems now.
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